I would like to start by thanking Tyler for asking me to speak about
Mason. As the innocent bystander of many of my staff meetings...
I naturally question his desire to voluntarily listen to me.
Come
to find out ,his intentions were simple. Since I had seen Mason grow
up, who could be better to speak on his behalf? Well, I thought...maybe someone wasn't consumed with emotion...and capable
of rambling for hours on end???
Although this is one
of the most difficult things I've ever had to do, it is the profund joy that Mason gave me that gives me the strength
to stand her today.
The Hupp Family came into my life
many years ago, and we've spent a lot of time solifying the bond that now exist between their family and mine. As memories
of Mason raced through my mind, I relized that summing up "his larger than life" personality wasm't going to
be an eay task. As I tried to put my thoughts together, I could hear Breezy screaming, "MOM!" This wa OFTEN a sound
that Lori and I heard while we tried to relax after a long night of coaching... and ALWAYS an indication that Mason and Breezy's
nightly WWF match had turned in Mason's favor. Lori did her best to separate them, but the separation never lasted long.
Mason had amazing charisma with children. Well, all children excep Breezy. Almost
eighteen... She's now tough as nails...thanks in no small part to Mason's determination to make her so. I have to
wonder if a big brother's instinct allow him to foresee a little sister growing up to become a smart, talented, and beutiful
young woman...who will need more than a stick to fight the boys off with!
After his death, the depth of a bond is truly felt, and oour loved one becomes more a part of us than was
ever possible before. This could be interpreted as the bond between that of siblings. Mason was born on my brother's birthday,
June 9th, and not only did they share the same birth date, they shared the same enthusiasm for soccer, life and the love of
families. Mason loved his family with every ounce of his being.
I
keep reminiscing on the sweet boy with the big smile, crystal blue eyes and the lust for life that he exuded. That reminiscing
become overshadowed by the sound of the "music" pumping out of his red low rider that won't quit ringing in
my ears. when he first claimed his driving independence, he could be heard from a mile away! "Here comes Mason,"
I would say to Lori, as the metal building thumped and rattled as he approached. Mason was coming to tell Lori it was
time to come home; he was hungry for dinner and ready to be with his mamma, and oh man was that boy sweet on his momma.
Unpredictalbe was just his way. Eventually, there was nothing he
could do to surprise me. Take for instance his hair...I could never predict what he would look like when he got his hair cut.
AND, I thought it unimaginable when he pierced his ears...and then he got his first tattoo! Although, if memory serves me
correctly, didn't Pat take him to get that???
Beyond
his love of life, there are two things that I hope you will never forget about Mason. Those are is faith in love, and his
humility. Both are qualities that we all think we have, but by comparison, he makes us look bad. Love is something that is
hard for a lot of us to give. No one walks through life blindly handing out love and affection to everyone they meet...rather,
we quard our hearts as though the hurt we may cause ourselves could be the only obstacle we are incapable of overcoming. Even
harder than that, none of us walk through life able to gracefully receive the love that is given to us. I admire Mason because
love came naturally to him, and his life emulated it..
Humility
is even more difficult. Who among us goes out in the world, eager to conquer the impossible, simply to satisfy one's self?
We do things to please our families, and we do things to enrich our pocketbooks, and we do things to ultimately prove to someone
else that we are worthy. I never saw that in Mason. His ethics in the gym were insurmountable. He was the overachiever of
the handstand contest, the wayward admirer of the standing back tuck whp refused to be left out, and theadvocate of giving
hard work a purpose. He did nothing for his own glory. He live his life to prove to himself that he was capable of achieving
anything.
That's not to say that Mason didn't
do for others. He was the DO-ER for others. There is nothing that he would not have selflessly done for his friends and family.
There was never a bag that Lori would lift, or a muscle that she could strainin his presence. Maybe there was a twenty she
could lend here and there in return...but allin all, Mason's actions were put of love and respect. I can effortlessly
count at least three time that I moved, that wqould not have been possible without his commitment to lending a hand.
I think we all live our lives, ultimately hoping that one day we can become someone's
memory. Mason is more than a memory to me. His fun-loving
approach is a characteristic I wish to live my life by.
I can
not stand here and speak of his beautiful soul without extending my deepest appreciation to Pat and Lori for instilling so
much love into their children. The love and independence that exudes from these three beautiful human beings impacts everyone
who comes in contact with them. There was never a time that Mason walked into a room and missed the opportunity to acknowledge
everyone in his presence. He always greeted me with a hug, but no just any hug...a MASON
HUG.The king of hug that makes you feel like you had been wrapped in a warm blanket.
Their household is one of love and respect...and how blessed is the home in which
each member puts the others happiness first? Thank-you for sharing your hame and family with me.
I couldn't help but give Mason my heart, and now I wonder
if, since his physical being is gone, has he taken my heart with him? Will I spend the rest of my wordly days with this hole
inside me that can not be filled? I don't think that is the case because I have faith, and by definition, faith is my
belief in the things that my eyes can not see. I have faith that we will meey again, but in the interim...i do not intend
to forget.
I will never stop speaking of the joy
that Mason brought to my life, and I will never bite my lip to hold back a smile when he enters my thoughts. Most importantly,
I will never let a little boys parents' question whether or not they should enroll their child in gymnastics. I will politely
smile and remind them...of Mason, a shining Gem.
As
Tyler put it, I watched Mason grow up. That may be true, but as far as the Hupp children go, I am far from done watching them
grow.
I would like to leave you with a litle wisdom
from Dr. Seuss. He says, "Don't cry because its over...smile because it (life) happened".